What You Can Do
"Right. But all I really want is a kid...", you say? The only way to answer your mothering needs is through real-time interaction? Then let's talk hands-on:
- Volunteer. Whether it's at a children's hospital, a foster care agency, Big Sisters' program, or church, there are children everywhere who need you. Meet their needs and you will meet your own.
- Employment. There are numerous fields of occupation that will put you right in the middle of children's world. Not all are well-paying and few capture much fame or glory, but you'll go home after work with sticky smudges on your clothes and laughter ringing in your ears -- some days anyway.
- Your Partner. What man can resist being mothered in his own home, at least a little at times? Think of the word "love" as a verb, and try to create new ways of loving your spouse every day.
- Plants & Other Living Things. If you don't have a greenthumb, maybe you're leaving the nurturing out of your plants' care. Add a little and see what grows. Animals, on the other hand, won't let you get away with not caring. Pets of all kinds require nearly the same amount of mothering as small children, and there are always plenty of strays to go around -- so do your part!
- Family members. Do you have young cousins, nieces, and nephews? If they live nearby, developing a relationship with them through spending time will benefit everyone. If they are far away, get in and stay in the habit of sending letters or making phone calls.
It should go without saying (but it needs to be said) that women are not the sole proprietors of creating and nurturing. Perhaps the men, too, should take it upon themselves to explore their own needs in this area during Mother's Day. A good way to start is by nurturing the woman in your life!
© Tracy Morris
